We attract what we give

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     Instead of bringing each other down, why don’t we lift each other up for a change?

Why don’t we spread love instead of hate?

     I find funny the fact that we see ourselves as good people but we are constantly bashing on others. I find funny the fact that we don’t like it when others tell us how we should look, what we should say and how we should behave. We are constantly fighting for our freedom to choose how we look, to choose the words we say, and to choose the way we behave… and at the same time, we CHOOSE to hate on the way others look, the way they behave, and the way the choose to live their lives.

     I could talk about nations, men, artists, religions, races, and many more groups hating on each other, but it would be an endless topic, so I will make my point more concise by talking about women.

     Sometimes when we are walking in the mall, or at the amusement park, or maybe at school, we tend to look at women and instead looking for something to compliment, we look for something that we can criticize. Some other times, in the social media, we start looking at a quote or at animals and we somehow end up looking at other women, and once again, we end up saying things like: “Ugh, she’s so pretty…. But she dresses like a whore,” or “She’s has the same eyebrows as everyone,” or even “She has a kid.” A lot of times this happens unconsciously because we have been doing it for so long.

     I see thin women hating on thinner women: “That looks sick, she’s too skinny; at least I look healthy”, or hating on big women: “How in the world can she show her muffin tops?”

     Big women hating on thin women say: “Men don’t like bones. Real women have curves,” or they hate on fit women: “They are so muscly; they look like dudes.”

     I’ve also seen pretty women hating on not-so-pretty women: “Oh my! She’s so ugly, how come she has a boyfriend?” and on prettier women: “She’s not that pretty, she just knows how to take pictures.”

     I see women who lift hate on the ones who don’t lift: “They have spaghetti arms and no ass. SQUAT WOMEN! Nothing is hotter than a woman with a big ass”

     Women who count macros hate on the ones that eat healthy: “They are always eating tasteless crap and doing cardio like rabbits. I feel sorry for them.”

     Women who eat clean hate on the ones who don’t: “They’re always eating dirty. Don’t they know about GMO’s and don’t they know that they are damaging their bodies? They have no will power.”

     Religious women hating on non-religious women: “Oh my God! She is dressed like a whore. No man would take a girl like her seriously.”

     And the list goes on and on and… ON.

     Why? Why do we do that? I can tell you that a HUGE reason is because we DON’T LOVE OURSELVES ENOUGH. When we love ourselves, we radiate that love. At the same time, when we aren’t happy with ourselves, that’s exactly what we project. Our actions are a mirror of what’s inside of us.

     Maybe you should start getting used to being aware of your thoughts. Maybe you should learn to CONTROL what you are thinking. It may not be easy at first, but once you start EMPOWERING others instead of bringing them down, instead of attacking them, and instead of criticizing them… your whole world changes.

     Always keep in mind that we attract what we give… but multiplied.